A Scary Saturday Night (and a Very Good Outcome)


Saturday night was not how I planned to spend the weekend.


Earlier that morning, I gave Stanley his Sentinel heartworm pill — one that had originally been prescribed for our old dog, Cali. I had checked with our vet ahead of time and was told there was no reason to throw the medication away as long as it wasn’t expired and Stanley had reached the appropriate weight range. I believed he had.


At first, everything seemed fine. But by dinnertime, Stanley wouldn’t eat and was unusually quiet. A couple of hours later, when we got home after being out, it was clear something was very wrong.


He barely got up to greet us. I carried him upstairs and noticed he was wobbly, shaky, and clearly off balance. He was holding his ears strangely, staring at the couch but unable or unwilling to jump up. He wandered aimlessly, almost like he was drunk or disoriented, and still refused food.


My son and I did some quick research, and everything pointed to the same answer: vet immediately. Thankfully, I had just gotten pet insurance — and off to the emergency vet we went.


The ER Visit


Stanley was taken back right away. After an exam, we waited for about an hour while he sat wrapped in a blanket on my lap, unusually calm and quiet — too out of it to even be nervous.

Waiting for the Vet


When the vet came in, she told us his vitals were all normal. She asked detailed questions about what he might have gotten into, and the only unusual thing we could identify was the heartworm pill.

Waiting Patiently


She walked us through our options:

Hospitalize him overnight with monitoring and bloodwork, or assume a medication reaction and treat him with subcutaneous fluids and an anti-nausea medication, then send him home if I was comfortable monitoring him.


Given that his vitals were stable and I could be with him all night, we chose treatment and brought him home. I didn’t want to leave him.


The Aftermath


Stanley slept curled up against me all night. I barely slept — waking up often to check on him — but he rested peacefully. The next morning, he was still quiet, but he did eat breakfast.


By Sunday night, he was acting like himself again: playful, alert, and eating normally.


I checked in with our regular vet and also contacted the heartworm medication manufacturer to report what happened. What makes this especially confusing is that the medication he reacted to did not contain the additional dewormer — that ingredient is actually in the medication he’s taken before without any issues. At this point, I’ve thrown out the remaining pills and won’t be using them again while we figure out the best path forward.


For now, I’m keeping a close eye on him and plan to take him to agility class tonight — with zero pressure. If he’s not feeling it, we’ll leave. Simple as that.

Stanley does seem to be a sensitive little guy; he’s had a moderate vaccine reaction in the past as well. I’m hopeful this was a one-time issue and that we were simply lucky. Planning to work with my vet to make sure we find a safe path forward.

Grateful for Pet Insurance

I’m really thankful for pet insurance in moments like this. I have a free plan through Nibbles, which I got when I signed up for their credit card, and it made the decision to go to the emergency vet feel a little less stressful.

Of course I would have taken Stanley no matter what, but removing the immediate financial pressure helped. I used the card to pay for the visit, and the next morning I received an email asking if I wanted to submit a claim — they automatically recognized the charge as a vet hospital. All I have to do is reply with the reason for the visit and they handle the rest.

I opted to include office visits in my coverage, so the cost should be covered or applied toward my deductible. I’m also reaching out to the heartworm medication manufacturer, since they sometimes reimburse expenses related to drug reactions.

Opinion: I’ve never used pet insurance before, but after seeing a friend go through spending a huge amount of money for leg surgery for her dog, I thought I would try it with Stanley. Pet insurance doesn’t change your decision to seek care — it just makes an already stressful situation easier to manage.


In Other (Much Lighter) News…


My son set up the new open-top litter box yesterday — the one I won from Catlink. It’s the Scooper Open-X. It looks like a great design! He wanted to try it first since he’s had ongoing litter box issues with Martin. I really like the look of it and I’m hopeful the open design will be appealing to Martin.

Photo by Lucas Hamilton


He said setup was very easy, and while it’s larger than a standard litter box, it doesn’t take up an unreasonable amount of space compared to other automatic options. I’ll share more once we see how Martin feels about it.
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Sometimes pet ownership is routines and progress… and sometimes it’s terrifying curveballs. I’m incredibly grateful that Stanley seems to be okay — and that we listened to our instincts when something felt wrong. Have you had a scary moment with your pet? Share in the comments….

 

New Year, Same Pets (With Big Plans) šŸŽ‰šŸ¾


I hope Santa was good to all the pets!

As we roll into 2026, I’ve been thinking about what the new year might look like for our pets — not in a ā€œnew year, new youā€ way, but more of a small tweaks, steady progress kind of way.


Stanley’s 2026 Goals 🐶
Stanley has a busy year ahead. The plan includes: More classes, starting with agility next week, Ā Ongoing general manners and obedience work, Ā More nose work, which he truly loves
And maybe — eventually — working toward his Canine Good Citizen.


While I do consider him housebroken at this point, there’s still one thing I’d really like to solve: the occasional pooping in his crate. Switching from blankets to crate pads (on a trainer’s advice) has helped, but we’re not all the way there yet.


I’m also toying with the idea of giving him an indoor potty option. I know how much he absolutely hates the cold, and winter isn’t doing either of us any favors. TBD.


Cats: A New Litter Box Experiment 🐱
The cats are doing well overall. My son is currently testing out a new open-top automatic litter box I won from Catlink — and I’m very curious to see how this goes.


The real question: will Martin (our occasional couch offender) prefer the open-top setup and have fewer ā€œaccidentsā€? Fingers crossed. If he approves, it could be a game changer.

Hector D. Byrd: Still Unwrapping šŸŽšŸ¦œ
Hector D. Byrd is doing just fine. She’s still slowly opening one of her Christmas presents — very on brand for her. New things take time, and she likes to move at her own pace. Honestly, same.

Present in the background… Waiting.


That’s where we’re starting 2026: plans in place, expectations realistic, and everyone mostly doing okay.


I’d love to know —
Do you set goals or plans for your pets in the new year, or do you just let things unfold?

Here’s to another year of learning, adjusting, and doing the best we can for the animals who run our lives. 🐾✨





Winter Pet Check-In: Everyone Is Adjusting ā„ļøšŸ¾

Perfect Lap Warmer!


The shorter days have officially arrived, and every pet in the house seems to have noticed — even the ones with lights, heaters, and very strong opinions.

Hector: Sleeping In & Eating Her Veggies 🦜
Hector is clearly in winter mode. Some mornings she’s still asleep when I get up, which always feels strange since she’s usually awake and supervising my morning routine. But it’s normal for parrots to slow down this time of year, and she seems perfectly content.


The Dragon: Seasonal Preferences & Sink Baths šŸ¦Ž
The dragon is also reacting to the shorter daylight, even with her tank lights on. I don’t fully understand how she knows, but she absolutely does.
She had been eating so well that I placed a big online bug order — dubia roaches, hornworms, and phoenix worms. She got through most of them, but it was a struggle. Lately, the only bug she really seems excited about is super worms. Not ideal as a main staple, but I’ll take it. She’s still eating those and her veggies, which matters most.

One highlight? She has been loving her kitchen sink baths lately. Very relaxed. Very splashy.

King Puck


Cats: Grooming Battles & A Smart Litter Box Move 🐱
The cats are mostly doing fine. Bean remains a pain to groom, but I tackle that when I have to. Neither of us enjoys it, but it’s necessary.

Martin, however, surprised everyone. He’s the cat who sometimes chooses the couch over the litter box. With two boxes, he’s been doing pretty well, though mishaps still happen occasionally. The other night, Martin woke my son up at 4am and led him straight to the litter box. My son isn’t sure what was wrong, but he cleaned it, added fresh litter, and (wisely) covered the couch. Ā The next morning? No surprises on the couch. I’m honestly amazed that Martin was uncomfortable enough — and smart enough — to wake him up and communicate that something wasn’t right instead of defaulting to old habits.

 


Stanley: Cold Weather Standoffs & Indoor Wins 🐶
Stanley is fine… except for the cold. He hates it. And he has no interest in pooping outside once winter hits. The routine usually goes like this:
He asks to go out, pees, comes back in restless, pesters me, asks to go out again… repeat until he finally decides the cold is worth it. Jackets sometimes help. Sometimes they don’t. The only accidents he’s having are in his crate, so overall, he’s doing pretty well.

On the bright side, he started a nose work class, and he’s loving it. Right now we’re working on ā€œfind it,ā€ where he searches through cardboard boxes to locate a hidden treat. He’s doing really well and clearly enjoys the work — and it’s such a great indoor activity for winter.


We’re also still practicing agility and tricks inside. He’s mastered weaving through my legs and rolling over, so now I need some new ideas. If you have favorite tricks to teach, I’m all ears.

Holiday Mode šŸŽ„
All the pets’ stockings are officially filled for Christmas, because of course they are!

Now I’m curious — do you buy gifts for your pets, or skip it entirely? No judgment either way, but I love hearing what other people do.


Opinion: Winter pet care is less about perfection and more about flexibility. If everyone is eating, learning, and mostly behaving, I’m calling it a win.

Share a comment with how you are coping with winter and pets.

Stanley’s New Harness! – By Voyager – Reviewed

 

Product Review: Voyager Step-In Air Harness (Size Small)

I didn’t expect to go through multiple harnesses with a tiny pup like Stanley, but here we are — harness number three, and finally a winner!

We just upgraded to the Voyager Step-In Air Harness (Size Small), and I’m really impressed. Use their size chart. I found it very accurate. I was shocked to get a harness that fit first try!

Quick Backstory:

  • Harness #1: Total fail — Stanley could back out of it, which is super dangerous with a nervous, young dog.

  • Harness #2: Worked well for a while, but as Stanley grew and I had to lengthen the straps, it started sitting sideways on him because of where the buckles hit. It looked uncomfortable and didn’t feel secure.

Why I Love the Voyager Harness:

  • Step-In Design: So much easier than wrestling it over his head.

  • Cushioned, breathable mesh straps: Thick and soft — they don’t dig in, and they feel durable.

  • Secure fit: It sits nicely on his body and feels much more stable than our previous harnesses.

  • The harness Velcros on the top and then has a buckle over it, so very secure. Velcro can be adjusted snugly, so less chance of escape.
Velcro and Buckle Closure
  • Color options: I went with teal (even though I wanted purple) because it was $3 cheaper — and it looks great on him! Pro tip: always check the price for each color when shopping on Amazon.

The Adjustment Period:

Stanley was super nervous the first time I put it on — ran into his crate and hid. So we took it slow: I’d only put it on when we were heading out, then remove it inside. After a day or so, I started leaving it on for short periods indoors. Now? He’s totally fine wearing it around the house. It’s a little bulky under his coat, but I’m planning to get him a warmer, better-fitting coat anyway.


šŸ’¬ Final Verdict:
Highly recommend the Voyager Step-In Air Harness for small dogs. Just give your pup time to adjust if they’re sensitive to new gear like Stanley.

And if anyone has a favorite warm, water-resistant dog coat, drop me a recommendation — Stanley’s winter wardrobe needs an upgrade!

Stanley’s Cough Lingers, But Spirits Are High

Stanley Celebrating Halloween at Agility Class

Stanley’s still got a bit of a cough — even after finishing his antibiotics — but otherwise, he’s doing great. He’s eating well, playing like his usual happy self, and showing no signs that he’s feeling sick… just that persistent cough hanging on. It’s mostly in the mornings or when he gets really excited.

We went back to the vet yesterday for a chest x-ray to be safe, and thankfully, it was all good news — no pneumonia, no major issues, just some mild inflammation. The vet started him on another medication for a few days to help calm the irritation down.

Sleepy After Class!

Last night was a bit of a twist. I put Stanley in his crate in our bedroom like usual, but he seemed really restless — digging at his blankets, whining, just not settling. I opened the crate to check on him, and he immediately jumped out… and straight onto our bed. I figured I’d let him snuggle for a minute, but he curled up so sweetly, I didn’t have the heart to move him. He spent the night with us — and surprisingly, the cats didn’t mind at all!

  • Puck slept in his usual spot on Dave

  • Bean did his usual brief snuggle with me before heading off

  • Me? I had the hardest time sleeping with Stanley plastered against my belly!

Stanley is still loving agility class. Last week, he wasn’t coughing at all that day and had finished his antibiotics, so I brought him. He crushed it! He’s now confidently tackling the giant A-frame, leaping through hoops and tunnels like a pro. It’s clear how much joy that class brings him. It brings me joy to see him using his brain and his body, double win!

While Not Thrilled With the Outside Cold, He Enjoys the Extra Snuggles!
Loving a Good Wood Fire on a Cold Day

Fingers crossed this new medication clears things up completely. In the meantime, Stanley’s keeping spirits high and routines strong — one cuddle and obstacle at a time. šŸ¾šŸ’›

The Maine Coon Hang

Poor Stanley!

Stanley’s Favorite New Spot – ON His Crate!


Poor Stanley gave me quite the scare this week. He woke me up at 5am with a persistent cough, and it didn’t let up throughout the day. Even though he was eating and still had moments of playfulness, he seemed a bit more lethargic than usual — and it was heartbreaking to see him try to play, only to start coughing mid-pounce.

I brought him to the vet that afternoon. Thankfully, his lungs sounded clear, he had no fever, and everything else checked out fine. The vet suspected his throat might just be irritated — maybe from something he inhaled or chewed on — and sent us home with Sucralfate to help soothe the inflammation.


But today, the cough is still lingering.

So we’re starting him on antibiotics, just in case there’s a low-grade infection hiding under the surface. Fingers crossed this clears things up quickly. I hate seeing him so uncomfortable — especially when all he wants to do is have a little fun.

Here’s hoping for restful nights and a quiet, happy pup very soon. šŸ’›

Cooler Weather, Agility Adventures, and a Healthy Flock

 

Life’s been busy as usual around here, and Stanley is definitely not a fan of the shift in seasons. The cooler weather has him frustrated and confused—he wants to go outside and soak up the sun, only to discover it’s cold. So he asks to go out… then immediately back in… then out again. All. Day. Long.


Potty Progress
Despite the weather struggles, Stanley has been doing great with potty training! We’ve had a couple of poops on the potty pad in his crate, but they weren’t surprises—they happened on days when our schedule was off and I only had time for a quick walk before leaving him alone. Overall? No random accidents in the house. I’ll take it as a win!


  • Dog Fitness Class: Wrapping Up
    Stanley is finishing up his dog fitness class this week. It’s been fine—not amazing, but helpful. He’s learned how to:

Step onto a platform with front feet
Shift to just back feet
Back up over the platform
Sit, lie down, spin both ways, and pivot with his front feet on the board
Not groundbreaking, but a solid foundation!

Post Agility Class Exhaustion!

Puppy Agility: A New Favorite

Now for the exciting part—we started puppy agility, and Stanley LOVES it. He was brave with the tunnels from day one, and he’s completely obsessed with the jumps. The class just started but runs for several more weeks, and I’m really excited to see how he grows with it.We even have agility jumps and weave poles set up at home now! I’m hoping indoor agility sessions will help burn off some of that endless puppy energy this winter when walks are short and the backyard is freezing.


Cat Update: Martin’s Doing Great
In other happy news, my son’s cat Martin seems to be over the hump with his urinary issues—knock on wood! Since my son added a second litter box, Martin has been consistently using it without problems. They had three boxes for a while, but the two cats were just using two of them anyway, so scaling back to two has worked well. I’m so relieved for my son—and for Martin!


Hector’s Vet Check & Diet Update
Our sweet African Grey, Hector, had her regular vet check-up last week, and I’m thrilled to report she’s doing great! She loves the vet and is such a good girl for him. She even made me laugh out loud in the car—when I put her in, she said, ā€œWe go where?ā€ She’s never strung those words together before!


At the vet’s office, she asked ā€œWhat?!ā€ at exactly the right moment, and we all cracked up. Her weight is steady, and overall health is great. Because she’s now 32 years old, the vet wants to continue seeing her every six months to monitor her closely—birds are prey animals and often hide illness, so frequent check-ups help us stay proactive.
The vet is keeping her on her ā€œspecialā€ diet:
Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā Low-carb, aside from her Zupreem Fruit Blend pellets
Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā Limited nuts
Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā Mostly vegetables, including:
Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā Dried veggie mixes from Texas Naturals and Avian Naturals
Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā Mixed with frozen veggies, baby food, and canned pumpkin,(favorite!)

It’s a little extra effort, but worth it to keep her feeling her best. Both Texas Naturals and Avian Naturals have great dried veggie mixes to add some variety to Hector’s diet while still keeping food prep really simple.

The Dragon Update: Craving Variety
Our bearded dragon has been doing well overall. The other day, I caught her trying to eat a GIANT Dubia roach that was crawling in her tank. It was way too big, so I’ve ordered her a fresh batch of smaller feeders. Lately, she’s only been eating mealworms and some veggies, so I wanted to spice up her options. I’ve got Hornworms, Dubia roaches, and Calci-worms (black soldier fly larvae) on the way. Fingers crossed that a little variety gets her excited about mealtime again!

 

Regarding the giant Dubia in her tank… her tank is bioactive, meaning it is full of insects, isopods, springtails, meal worms, and yes some Dubia that have escaped the food dish. The insects basically live unseen, but they keep the soil healthy, the plants thriving, and the tank clean. Old veggies that the dragon doesn’t want feed the insects, it’s a great, thriving little ecosystem.

That’s the latest from our little zoo—cool weather, agility gear, chatty parrots, picky dragons, and one very confused sun-loving puppy. šŸ¾šŸ¦œšŸ¦Ž

A Quiet Summer… With a Busy Pup

Training Adventures


We’ve been focusing hard on training, and Stanley is thriving. We just started an Intro to Dog Fitness class designed to set us up for agility work. Puppy agility starts in a few weeks, and I can’t wait! So far, we’re working on:

  • Ā Paws up on a step (front and back)
  • Ā Sit and stand transitionsĀ  Ā Ā 
  • Keeping up with his ever-growing trick list: sit, down, spin, paw, crawl, up, Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  Ā  over, leave it, touch… you name it, he wants to learn it.

He’s a busy boy, and he loves using his brain.

Boarding Win
I’m so happy to have found a boarding kennel that Stanley loves. The staff is wonderful, and the best part? He’s excited to go there — tail wagging, jumping out of the car, ready to see his friends. They offered a training package while he was boarded, so Stanley had four mini sessions during his stay. Not only did they reinforce what he knows, but they also introduced a new trick: ā€œlegsā€ (walking through mine). Pretty cool, right?


House Training: Progress (and Rainy Day Struggles)
House training is still a work in progress. Most days he’s doing great, but rainy days are tough. Today, he peed outside like a champ, but I had to leave for errands and knew a crate accident was coming — and sure enough. At least he used his potty pad. Later he tried something new: standing outside his crate and peeing into it. Ugh. Definitely a reminder to get him out right away after errands. Lesson learned on my part!


New Toys for a Rainy Day
Since bad weather makes for stir-crazy puppies, we stopped at the pet store. I picked up worms for the dragon, but of course Stanley scored too:
Ā  Ā  Ā A Pupsicle toy
Ā  Ā  Ā A couple of twisty bully chews
Ā  Ā  Ā A slow feeder puzzle mat for his kibble


Anything to keep that busy little brain working! I’ll share reviews of these toys once we’ve had a chance to really try them out.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Bean decided to check out the Stanley pen!

Meanwhile, the Cats…

The cats are doing well, though Bean keeps me busy with his grooming struggles. He mats so easily, and I’ve been cutting them out as I find them. I’ve thought about shaving him, but I don’t think I could manage that myself — and professional cat grooming is pricey! On top of that, one of my Catlink litter boxes is acting up. It doesn’t seem to want to run automatically anymore, so I’m planning to try another calibration and reset to see if that helps. Not exactly fun, but hopefully fixable.


šŸ‘‰ Overall, it may have been a quiet summer, but Stanley has kept life interesting. Between training, playtime, and the occasional potty mishap, he’s growing into such a fun, smart little dog. Can’t wait to see how he does when agility starts!

Stanley’s Dental Adventure, Bark Box #5, a Lake Day, and a Busy Pet Momma Summer

It’s been a full week in the Pet Momma household, and I have lots to share—starting with Stanley’s latest vet visit.

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Stanley’s First Boat Ride

Stanley Had His Puppy Teeth Removed

Despite all the chewing and tug games, Stanley wasn’t losing his puppy teeth on his own. After talking with the vet, we decided it was best to have them removed. He had four baby teeth pulled yesterday, and I was honestly a wreck dropping him off. The drive didn’t help—an accident had the vet’s road completely blocked, and I nearly turned around to reschedule. Just as I was giving up, traffic cleared, and we made it.

The procedure went smoothly, and the vet staff was amazing. They even told me the vet was walking around post-op with Stanley wrapped in a blanket—yes, I melted. He was groggy last night but bounced back this morning like nothing happened. Keeping him quiet? Not even remotely happening.

Small hiccup today: I accidentally gave him a second dose of his pain medication (meant to be once daily). It was near his food, and I wasn’t thinking. I looked it up and it seems he’ll be fine, but I’m watching him closely just in case.

Stanley Discovers Cheese

We don’t usually feed Stanley human food, but I’ve made an exception for American cheese—it turns out, he loves it. And more importantly, it’s the perfect vehicle for sneaking in pills. He took his pain med wrapped in cheese with zero fuss. Victory.

Bark Box #5: Mostly Hits, One Miss

We got Box #5 of 6 from Bark Box, and it came with a great mix:

  • A slice of pizza šŸ•

  • A crinkly purple octopus šŸ™ (adorable!)

  • A long snake šŸ

  • Two extras I ordered: tomatoes on the vine and onion rings

Stanley loved most of it, especially the octopus. But I’m disappointed in the onion rings—unlike what I expected, it’s a single toy with three attached rings in a container. I thought they’d be individual tossable rings, which would’ve been way more fun and better sized for Stan.

Lake Day Success!

Last weekend, Stanley had his first visit to the lake with family, and he did great! He met four other dogs, ranging in size from his own tiny self up to 75 pounds. He also met lots of new people, including a toddler and two young girls. He was off-leash but stayed close, friendly, and curious.

He even had his first little swim—got gently dunked in the water and paddled safely back to shore. The only mishap? He got a paw caught in one of the stairs while climbing out of the lake and panicked. Luckily, he trusted me to help him out, and we avoided full-on meltdown. He slept like a rock on the ride home.

Not quite where Stanley is supposed to go!

Other Pet Updates

  • Hector (our African Grey) has been extra sweet and chatty lately. I think she’s craving attention with our summer routines all over the place.

  • I was briefly worried about our bearded dragon—she’d been sluggish and not eating much, but today she perked up and ate well. Hoping that continues.

Trying a New Pet Sitter

I’m heading out of town next week and will be using a new pet sitter. Fingers crossed it goes smoothly. She seems great, and she knows how to reach me if anything comes up.


Between Stanley’s dental drama, toy testing, first swim, and managing a multi-pet household, it’s been a very Pet Momma summer. 🐾