#AfricanGrey – Pet Momma

New Year, Same Pets (With Big Plans) 🎉🐾

I hope Santa was good to all the pets!

As we roll into 2026, I’ve been thinking about what the new year might look like for our pets — not in a “new year, new you” way, but more of a small tweaks, steady progress kind of way.

Stanley’s 2026 Goals 🐶
Stanley has a busy year ahead. The plan includes: More classes, starting with agility next week, Ongoing general manners and obedience work, More nose work, which he truly loves
And maybe — eventually — working toward his Canine Good Citizen.

While I do consider him housebroken at this point, there’s still one thing I’d really like to solve: the occasional pooping in his crate. Switching from blankets to crate pads (on a trainer’s advice) has helped, but we’re not all the way there yet.

I’m also toying with the idea of giving him an indoor potty option. I know how much he absolutely hates the cold, and winter isn’t doing either of us any favors. TBD.

Cats: A New Litter Box Experiment 🐱
The cats are doing well overall. My son is currently testing out a new open-top automatic litter box I won from Catlink — and I’m very curious to see how this goes.

The real question: will Martin (our occasional couch offender) prefer the open-top setup and have fewer “accidents”? Fingers crossed. If he approves, it could be a game changer.

Hector D. Byrd: Still Unwrapping 🎁🦜
Hector D. Byrd is doing just fine. She’s still slowly opening one of her Christmas presents — very on brand for her. New things take time, and she likes to move at her own pace. Honestly, same.

That’s where we’re starting 2026: plans in place, expectations realistic, and everyone mostly doing okay.

I’d love to know —
Do you set goals or plans for your pets in the new year, or do you just let things unfold?

Here’s to another year of learning, adjusting, and doing the best we can for the animals who run our lives. 🐾✨

Winter Pet Check-In: Everyone Is Adjusting ❄️🐾

The shorter days have officially arrived, and every pet in the house seems to have noticed — even the ones with lights, heaters, and very strong opinions.

Hector: Sleeping In & Eating Her Veggies 🦜
Hector is clearly in winter mode. Some mornings she’s still asleep when I get up, which always feels strange since she’s usually awake and supervising my morning routine. But it’s normal for parrots to slow down this time of year, and she seems perfectly content.

The Dragon: Seasonal Preferences & Sink Baths 🦎
The dragon is also reacting to the shorter daylight, even with her tank lights on. I don’t fully understand how she knows, but she absolutely does.
She had been eating so well that I placed a big online bug order — dubia roaches, hornworms, and phoenix worms. She got through most of them, but it was a struggle. Lately, the only bug she really seems excited about is super worms. Not ideal as a main staple, but I’ll take it. She’s still eating those and her veggies, which matters most.

One highlight? She has been loving her kitchen sink baths lately. Very relaxed. Very splashy.

Cats: Grooming Battles & A Smart Litter Box Move 🐱
The cats are mostly doing fine. Bean remains a pain to groom, but I tackle that when I have to. Neither of us enjoys it, but it’s necessary.

Martin, however, surprised everyone. He’s the cat who sometimes chooses the couch over the litter box. With two boxes, he’s been doing pretty well, though mishaps still happen occasionally. The other night, Martin woke my son up at 4am and led him straight to the litter box. My son isn’t sure what was wrong, but he cleaned it, added fresh litter, and (wisely) covered the couch. The next morning? No surprises on the couch. I’m honestly amazed that Martin was uncomfortable enough — and smart enough — to wake him up and communicate that something wasn’t right instead of defaulting to old habits.

Stanley: Cold Weather Standoffs & Indoor Wins 🐶
Stanley is fine… except for the cold. He hates it. And he has no interest in pooping outside once winter hits. The routine usually goes like this:
He asks to go out, pees, comes back in restless, pesters me, asks to go out again… repeat until he finally decides the cold is worth it. Jackets sometimes help. Sometimes they don’t. The only accidents he’s having are in his crate, so overall, he’s doing pretty well.

On the bright side, he started a nose work class, and he’s loving it. Right now we’re working on “find it,” where he searches through cardboard boxes to locate a hidden treat. He’s doing really well and clearly enjoys the work — and it’s such a great indoor activity for winter.

We’re also still practicing agility and tricks inside. He’s mastered weaving through my legs and rolling over, so now I need some new ideas. If you have favorite tricks to teach, I’m all ears.

Holiday Mode 🎄
All the pets’ stockings are officially filled for Christmas, because of course they are!

Now I’m curious — do you buy gifts for your pets, or skip it entirely? No judgment either way, but I love hearing what other people do.

Opinion: Winter pet care is less about perfection and more about flexibility. If everyone is eating, learning, and mostly behaving, I’m calling it a win.

Share a comment with how you are coping with winter and pets.

Cooler Weather, Agility Adventures, and a Healthy Flock

Life’s been busy as usual around here, and Stanley is definitely not a fan of the shift in seasons. The cooler weather has him frustrated and confused—he wants to go outside and soak up the sun, only to discover it’s cold. So he asks to go out… then immediately back in… then out again. All. Day. Long.

Potty Progress
Despite the weather struggles, Stanley has been doing great with potty training! We’ve had a couple of poops on the potty pad in his crate, but they weren’t surprises—they happened on days when our schedule was off and I only had time for a quick walk before leaving him alone. Overall? No random accidents in the house. I’ll take it as a win!

Dog Fitness Class: Wrapping Up
Stanley is finishing up his dog fitness class this week. It’s been fine—not amazing, but helpful. He’s learned how to:

Step onto a platform with front feet
Shift to just back feet
Back up over the platform
Sit, lie down, spin both ways, and pivot with his front feet on the board
Not groundbreaking, but a solid foundation!

Puppy Agility: A New Favorite

Now for the exciting part—we started puppy agility, and Stanley LOVES it. He was brave with the tunnels from day one, and he’s completely obsessed with the jumps. The class just started but runs for several more weeks, and I’m really excited to see how he grows with it.We even have agility jumps and weave poles set up at home now! I’m hoping indoor agility sessions will help burn off some of that endless puppy energy this winter when walks are short and the backyard is freezing.

Cat Update: Martin’s Doing Great
In other happy news, my son’s cat Martin seems to be over the hump with his urinary issues—knock on wood! Since my son added a second litter box, Martin has been consistently using it without problems. They had three boxes for a while, but the two cats were just using two of them anyway, so scaling back to two has worked well. I’m so relieved for my son—and for Martin!

Hector’s Vet Check & Diet Update
Our sweet African Grey, Hector, had her regular vet check-up last week, and I’m thrilled to report she’s doing great! She loves the vet and is such a good girl for him. She even made me laugh out loud in the car—when I put her in, she said, “We go where?” She’s never strung those words together before!

At the vet’s office, she asked “What?!” at exactly the right moment, and we all cracked up. Her weight is steady, and overall health is great. Because she’s now 32 years old, the vet wants to continue seeing her every six months to monitor her closely—birds are prey animals and often hide illness, so frequent check-ups help us stay proactive.
The vet is keeping her on her “special” diet:
Low-carb, aside from her Zupreem Fruit Blend pellets
Limited nuts
Mostly vegetables, including:
Dried veggie mixes from Texas Naturals and Avian Naturals
Mixed with frozen veggies, baby food, and canned pumpkin,(favorite!)

It’s a little extra effort, but worth it to keep her feeling her best. Both Texas Naturals and Avian Naturals have great dried veggie mixes to add some variety to Hector’s diet while still keeping food prep really simple.

The Dragon Update: Craving Variety
Our bearded dragon has been doing well overall. The other day, I caught her trying to eat a GIANT Dubia roach that was crawling in her tank. It was way too big, so I’ve ordered her a fresh batch of smaller feeders. Lately, she’s only been eating mealworms and some veggies, so I wanted to spice up her options. I’ve got Hornworms, Dubia roaches, and Calci-worms (black soldier fly larvae) on the way. Fingers crossed that a little variety gets her excited about mealtime again!

Regarding the giant Dubia in her tank… her tank is bioactive, meaning it is full of insects, isopods, springtails, meal worms, and yes some Dubia that have escaped the food dish. The insects basically live unseen, but they keep the soil healthy, the plants thriving, and the tank clean. Old veggies that the dragon doesn’t want feed the insects, it’s a great, thriving little ecosystem.

That’s the latest from our little zoo—cool weather, agility gear, chatty parrots, picky dragons, and one very confused sun-loving puppy. 🐾🦜🦎

Stanley’s Dental Adventure, Bark Box #5, a Lake Day, and a Busy Pet Momma Summer

It’s been a full week in the Pet Momma household, and I have lots to share—starting with Stanley’s latest vet visit.

Stanley Had His Puppy Teeth Removed

Despite all the chewing and tug games, Stanley wasn’t losing his puppy teeth on his own. After talking with the vet, we decided it was best to have them removed. He had four baby teeth pulled yesterday, and I was honestly a wreck dropping him off. The drive didn’t help—an accident had the vet’s road completely blocked, and I nearly turned around to reschedule. Just as I was giving up, traffic cleared, and we made it.

The procedure went smoothly, and the vet staff was amazing. They even told me the vet was walking around post-op with Stanley wrapped in a blanket—yes, I melted. He was groggy last night but bounced back this morning like nothing happened. Keeping him quiet? Not even remotely happening.

Small hiccup today: I accidentally gave him a second dose of his pain medication (meant to be once daily). It was near his food, and I wasn’t thinking. I looked it up and it seems he’ll be fine, but I’m watching him closely just in case.

Stanley Discovers Cheese

We don’t usually feed Stanley human food, but I’ve made an exception for American cheese—it turns out, he loves it. And more importantly, it’s the perfect vehicle for sneaking in pills. He took his pain med wrapped in cheese with zero fuss. Victory.

Bark Box #5: Mostly Hits, One Miss

We got Box #5 of 6 from Bark Box, and it came with a great mix:

A slice of pizza 🍕
A crinkly purple octopus 🐙 (adorable!)
A long snake 🐍
Two extras I ordered: tomatoes on the vine and onion rings

Stanley loved most of it, especially the octopus. But I’m disappointed in the onion rings—unlike what I expected, it’s a single toy with three attached rings in a container. I thought they’d be individual tossable rings, which would’ve been way more fun and better sized for Stan.

Lake Day Success!

Last weekend, Stanley had his first visit to the lake with family, and he did great! He met four other dogs, ranging in size from his own tiny self up to 75 pounds. He also met lots of new people, including a toddler and two young girls. He was off-leash but stayed close, friendly, and curious.

He even had his first little swim—got gently dunked in the water and paddled safely back to shore. The only mishap? He got a paw caught in one of the stairs while climbing out of the lake and panicked. Luckily, he trusted me to help him out, and we avoided full-on meltdown. He slept like a rock on the ride home.

Not quite where Stanley is supposed to go!

Other Pet Updates

Hector (our African Grey) has been extra sweet and chatty lately. I think she’s craving attention with our summer routines all over the place.
I was briefly worried about our bearded dragon—she’d been sluggish and not eating much, but today she perked up and ate well. Hoping that continues.

Trying a New Pet Sitter

I’m heading out of town next week and will be using a new pet sitter. Fingers crossed it goes smoothly. She seems great, and she knows how to reach me if anything comes up.

Between Stanley’s dental drama, toy testing, first swim, and managing a multi-pet household, it’s been a very Pet Momma summer. 🐾

Stanley vs. The Heartworm Pill

Spoiler: Stanley won this round.

The Monthly Struggle
This morning was Heartworm Pill Day — and if you think that sounds simple, you clearly don’t live with Stanley. He’s adorable, snuggly, and smart… and somehow also a pill-detecting genius.

Too Big to Swallow, Too Smart to Trick
The heartworm pill is a big chewable, which means I can’t just sneak it down his throat like a smaller tablet. So, I got creative:

First attempt: hide it in sliced turkey. Rejected.

Second attempt: cut it into quarters. Still no.

Third attempt: roll the pieces into American cheese balls. He unrolled them like a pro and left the medicine behind.

Desperation Tactics
Eventually, I had to crush the pill completely, mash the bits into tiny globs of cheese, and serve it on a plate like some sad little charcuterie board of trickery. That finally worked — I think he got all of it, but honestly, who knows with this guy?

Note to Self: Liquid Next Time
Next time I order meds, I’m definitely asking if there’s a liquid option. Or at least something smaller and easier to disguise. I want to make sure he gets every bit of his dose, and I’m not convinced a battle of wills every month is sustainable.

Other pets are all doing well. Bean the Maine Coon desperately needs a good grooming after my travels earlier this month. Hector is sassy as ever, and the Dragon is doing well although she has decided that meal worms and super worms are the only bugs she wants to eat anymore.

Stanley’s DNA, Giardia Round Two, and Sunshine Days

We got Stanley’s DNA test results back! I was convinced he had some Italian Greyhound in him, but nope—unless it’s hidden somewhere in the “Supermutt” category. The great news is that nothing stood out as a red flag in the health portion of the results. Always a relief!

Unfortunately, Stanley is back on medication for Giardia. Apparently, the first round didn’t completely wipe it out. He’s now on a twice-daily pill and a dewormer. He’s not thrilled, but I’ve learned it’s much easier to just give him the pill directly than try to hide it in food. He’s catching on, though—smart little guy.

I’ve been a bit lazy about training lately and need to get back into the habit. Stanley had his last playgroup of the session this week. Honestly, I’m not too sad to be switching groups. The dogs in his current group didn’t match his energy level. He worked hard trying to get someone to play, but it was a struggle. Fingers crossed the new group next week has more playful pups!

I was out for several hours last night and didn’t want to leave Stanley alone, so I asked a neighbor to check in. I wasn’t sure how it would go since he can be shy, but they said it only took about 15 minutes for him to warm up. After that, he was all cuddles and playtime. They even stayed for about an hour. Lucky pup!

Housebreaking is going really well! The weather has been beautiful, and Stanley has been loving it—sometimes a little too much. Getting him to actually do his business outside instead of just sprawling in the sun can be a challenge! He’s starting to bark at the door when he wants to go out, which is great progress. I picked up some bells to hang on the door, but he finds them terrifying at the moment. Hopefully, he gets over that and learns to ring them soon.

Stanley is still really pick about treats. Trader Joes are actually his favorites! he likes the freeze dried Just Chicken, and the dried salmon skin. The dried fish skin is kinda gross. It is very flaky, and it stinks, but he loves it. I save it for training class and outdoor training. We’ve been good about not letting him have human food, except for Pup Cups. Stan and I love to visit Starbucks and get a Pup cup and a coffee!

The rest of the pets are doing great. Our dragon finally finished shedding. Hector has been loving the sounds of birds through the open windows, and the cats are slowly adjusting to life with Stanley. Puck and Stanley even play sometimes—well, Puck whacks Stanley on the head, and Stanley thinks it’s the best game ever. He gets all excited and zooms around like a maniac. It’s actually pretty adorable.

Stanley’s Progress, Playtime, and the Elusive “Down” Command

🐾 Stanley Update: Loving Life and Learning Slowly
Stanley is doing great — he’s such a little love! His perfect day includes running wild playing fetch, and then curling up in someone’s lap like the world’s tiniest weighted blanket. He spent a few hours with my daughter and her partner last night while I was out, and he loved it. After zooming around their living room, he curled up on the couch like he owned the place.

🚪 Potty Progress: Outside Only!
Potty training is still a work in progress, but we’re moving in the right direction. I’ve officially taken away his indoor potty pads — it’s outdoor-only from here on out. He’s starting to understand what he’s supposed to do outside, but… he gets distracted. Easily.

Sometimes it’s a two-round process:

Take him out, let him sniff and explore.
Bring him back in.
Wait for him to start sniffing inside.
Back out we go.
It’s time-consuming, but I think it’s finally starting to click.

🐶 Playgroup and Puppy Energy
Stanley loves his weekly dog playgroup. I do wish there was another puppy in the mix — the other dogs are lovely, but none of them match his endless energy. He’ll play with one until they get tired, then bounce over to the next. It’s actually been great for him socially — he’s learning to read dog body language and back off when someone’s had enough. Big win!

🎓 Training Class Challenges
Training class has been… okay. It’s focused a lot on helping excitable adolescent dogs calm down, which is useful, but I was hoping for more basics like sit, stay, etc.

The biggest challenge? Lay down. Stanley doesn’t do it. At all. I’ve tried luring with treats, but he’s so tiny that he just stretches his neck instead of lowering his body. I’ve also tried waiting and rewarding the behavior when he does it naturally — but the only time he really lays down is in someone’s lap or locked in his crate.

I’m going to email the trainer and see if she has other ideas. It’s tough to teach “relax on your mat” when he doesn’t actually lay down on the floor. If you have tips, please send them my way!

That said, he’s doing great with:

Coming when called
Sit
Touch
Leave it
“OK” release cue
And he’s becoming an excellent walker — he walked over a mile each way to and from our favorite local restaurant last weekend!

🏃‍♂️ Agility on the Horizon?
I’m thinking about signing him up for a beginner agility class. With how much he loves running, jumping, and weaving through furniture, I think he’d have a blast. Plus, I suspect it would help him burn off some of that teenage dog energy in a positive way.

🐉 The Rest of the Crew
While Stanley may be hogging the spotlight, the rest of the pets are doing well:

The Dragon (our bearded dragon) just had a beautiful full-body shed and a nice bath. Her tail is the only bit left to finish up.

Hector the Parrot is thriving in her usual way — shredding every bit of cardboard she can find.

Martin on top, Puck under him, and Martha on the Side

Our two cats are adjusting to being blocked from the finished basement for the summer (our allergy-friendly zone for my daughter’s fiancé). They’re coping just fine, though they do linger dramatically outside the basement door.
Our son’s cats are still visiting frequently. We thought his male cat was the one peeing on the couch, but surprise! He just caught the female in the act. She’s headed to the vet Monday — fingers crossed it’s something treatable and we can put the mystery peeing to rest once and for all.

🐕 Back to Class Tomorrow!
We’re back at training class in the morning — wish us luck! And seriously, if anyone out there has advice on how to teach a tiny dog to lay down, I’m all ears. Drop your tips in the comments!

Updates and a Vet Visit

The house is quiet. I was trying hard to fight the grief, but realized it was a losing battle. I’m giving it its time and place. Cali will always be missed.

My cats had their yearly checkups today and I almost cancelled. I wasn’t sure I was ready to go back to the vet’s office, but I did and it was hard but fine. The staff is so wonderful and caring.

Bean didn’t want to stay on the scale for the vet, but he did like hiding out behind it. Poor little Puck was very shy. He stayed in his carrier until we had to take him out for his exam and then he scurried right back in.

Both cats got clean bills of health, Yay! Their vaccines were updated, and they were checked over. Puck may need his teeth cleaned at some point in the near future, but he is good for now.

Puck’s recovering from his traumatic car ride and vet visit in his cozy crate!

The Dragon enjoyed a sink bath yesterday. Usually she swims around for a bit and then tries to get out of the sink, but she spent a good 20 minutes in there yesterday, and still didn’t want to come out, so I had to just take her out and go do something else. I’ll give her a chance for another bath in a couple of days.

Hector is doing well. She’s such a great comfort. She’s always there to whistle and keep me company.

I’m starting to think about another dog. Part of me was thinking that maybe I wouldn’t get another dog ever, that I’d free myself up to travel, but the truth is I hate not having a dog. I had to walk to the neighbor’s to return a piece of mail that was accidentally delivered to us the other day, and it was so awful to me to go for a walk without a dog. I miss all of it, yes the snuggles, but I even miss taking care of a dog, playing with a dog, the feeding, grooming, putting her out, all of it. I’m not in a rush. I want to make sure I find the right new friend, but I think with some patience, the right rescue will find its way to me. For now, I’ve got kitty, parrot, and dragon friends to keep me busy!

Happy 32nd Hector D. Byrd!

Having this bird in my life is so special. She’s my bestie. We chat all day while I’m working or doing things around the house. She may not be cuddly, but she’s such a good girl. Happy 32nd Birthday Hector!

We are not only celebrating her birthday today, but also the fact that results came back from the test the vet did last week and everything looks good! We are going to continue her “new” diet, and she doesn’t have to go back to the vet for 60 days, and that’s just a quick weight check to make sure she is continuing to do well.

I’m so thankful I found this great Avian vet that is super easy to work with and close to home!

We will be celebrating today with MUSIC – currently playing a bunch of random kids songs, happy birthday songs, the Beatles, and any songs that have whistling, all Hector’s favorites!

She’s having a special breakfast with her normal diet, but some extras of her favorites like sweet potatoes, blueberries, and an extra almond to really celebrate!

Hector Goes to the Vet

Well, I honestly can’t remember if I’ve written about Hector’s vet trips recently, so a brief recap. A couple of months ago, I realized that Hector was drinking more water than usual for her. Hector’s vet was about an hour drive away, so to be honest, she hadn’t been in a long time. It was such a traumatic thing to put her in the car for an hour, deal with the vet, and then have another hour drive back home. Have I mentioned that Hector gets carsick?

The people that adopted one of my foster parrots, recently told me about an avian vet they used that was close to me. Between the excess drinking, and the long time without a check up, I decided to try out the new vet, and he’s awesome!

So Hector went to the vet about 2 months ago. We did an extensive (and expensive) blood work up to get some base lines and figure out what was going on. Overall the blood work looked pretty good for an older lady, but the vet was concerned about her drinking too much.

We started a new diet, low carb, high veggie, low fruit, no seeds, very limited nuts, and plenty of healthy pellets. Hector likes Fruit Zupreem pellets. She went back about a month ago for a weight check, and the vet was happy where she was at.

Today we went back again. Let me tell you that Hector knew what was coming as soon as she saw the cat carrier. I don’t know why, because the cat carrier comes out all the time and doesn’t usually affect her, but she knew.

I had to towel her to get her in the cage. Not the best way to start the journey, but she had to go. She threw up in the carrier on the way. This is the second time this happened and I even made a point of not feeding her breakfast this morning, but apparently it didn’t matter.

The vet said her weight was good and remained stable which is great. I was worried she hasn’t been eating enough, but apparently she is doing just fine. We talked about taking her to a specialist in Boston, but that would be expensive and stressful. The other option was another poop test which he would send out to a bird specialist he knew with better lab equipment. We just needed a sample.

Hector was sitting on a perch on a scale in the vet office clearly listening to everything we were saying. When we were done chatting and she still hadn’t pooped, the vet suggested I bring home a tube and pipette to collect a sample myself. I told the vet I wasn’t in a huge rush and I was happy to wait in the office a little longer to see if she would poop and just make it easy.

Well, as soon as I mentioned waiting around in the vet office, Hector made us a giant poop! The vet was able to collect enough of it to test, and we could head home. I swear she knew she had to poop to get out of there!

Post poop, wondering why we haven’t left the vet yet!

For now, she stays on her special diet. I have a feeling this is her new diet for life, but we are managing. We’ll see what the test results are when they come back in the next week to ten days.

The vet thinks she may have renal issues, hence the special diet. Hoping the test results don’t show anything too serious! Anyone have any experience with birds with renal issues? Let me know!